I don't like anybody fight or stay together for me.mostly it's for purposes,not love.sometimes it's for love,but I don't want someone who love me feel sad or angry when they see me being hated or loved by someone else,neither,especially in China.i also notice that when I cut in something, things become more complicated than before and everybody changes, looks different than usual.it makes me uncomfortable,it's why I stay away from them, keep quiet.everyone has own business to do and live hard.I just leave how their ways are. My mom calls it isolating self from the world（与世隔绝）.I call it living in the world without struggle,scramble,confusion and disturb（与世无争）,it's enough for me to know who hates me, who likes me.perhaps because im not worthy for anybody to move for me.

when I was a kid and parents fought against each other a lot for me, I thought one of them must be bad and another one must be good.cause i helped one of them who's more weaker and looked like being bullied and more sad and hurt,and doing right.but it's always wrong to hurt even kill each other who're couples and fall in love,and married for any reasons, especially for kids who are also victims of violence of family.so I don't like helping any of them who say they love me by violence and argues,who say they do it for me,i always felt guilty when i cut in one of them to fight against another one until i grow up i notice that the only ways to stop them for each other is to respect each other,instead of discriminating using attacking even destroying differences of all of us.