So, forget and forgive them,tin, you tell them to give up and don't come to China for you first, then they all insist on first but give up in the end,they try their best.the only difference is how long they can fight for you in other countrylands.I know you want to stop them coming and saying they will marry you and have babies and raising them up and building a family  in rest of your lives to stop yourself from being upset by them who will break their promises always,but same result as you see from the very beginning, you are alone and lonely still ,nothing changes. you can't complain it by your own upset on them, when you must stop sadness for yourselves unless you learn from pains.you experience and suffer a lot in your life, but they can't. 

God is so mercy. or why you only become yourself, not anybody else? As beautiful as a cat itself.

It's sad that someone only love your body when you love them by all your hearts.It's also sad that someone can't love you and only want fun of sex from anybody for free.If it's love,it sucks. Sex comes from love for most of human being. but when I make money by sex only, I am proud and walk with God. I kick those fucking basterds' ball.